اسلام عليكم ورØمة الله وبركاته بسم الله الرØمن الرØيم Being here among many other sites for long has taught me afew tips I'd love to share. DID YOU KNOW - many profiles are fake and owned by scammers male or female. - long distance relationships don't work unless one commits and sacrifice to relocate at own expenses. - majority of men are greedy and lazy so they prefer a woman with wealth. If you have nothing they will meet, use and damp you. - majority of women above 25 years some even divorced or widowed with or without kids are so choosy and set higher standards for themselves not realising that majority of men shy away from aged women especially divorced or with kids not unless you work or have own source of income. - many people tell lies from the beginning not knowing the lie you tell today could cost you true love tommorow. - despite the fact that many people in these sites are Muslims, majority are racist, arrogant and rude. HOW TO KNOW A SCAMMER. - they will start narrating their problems and ask for help sometimes even before you meet or talk. - they don't agree calling because I am meant to understand that their phones always have problems or they claim in this 21st century they don't have a phone and use only a computer. - they give you a non functional phone number that is always engaged and if they give you the right number they will never agree to a video chat. They prefer an audio call because it's convenient to change their voices. - some will send you unlicensed or unsecured apps that may compromise your device and accounts. - they will ask for emails, ask alot of questions about you but they don't like answering yours. SAFETY TIPS - Avoid long distance relationships. Scammers normally target people from afar. Look for people near your area it's easy to meet with them and their families in a halaal prescribed manner. - if by luck you find someone honest and true even from a far don't make any financial commitments before you meet. If they are indeed serious let them Carter for their own expenses including travel and passports. - many people here male or female are strangers to yourself and might be involved in illicit and unlawful activities like kidnapping, human trafficking, drugs trafficking or terrorism. Therefore before making any decisions consult your family and close acquaintances for their opinions and suggestions. Bad decisions can cost you your life and those of your loved ones. - insist on video calls on regular basis or whenever you can. - you can give out your number but not your private details or emails. - women should avoid lazy men who claim not to have jobs yet they look healthy. They must at least do something if they are not disabled. Even carrying sacks in the market for payment is doing something. - don't send your photos to people you have never met or the photos may end up elsewhere in social media without your knowledge. - install malware app incase scammers are planning to hack your devices or accounts. REMEMBER - if you are above 25 years, divorced, widowed or single. With or without kids please lower your standards if you are seriously looking for a partner. - don't raise your expectations higher if you don't want to be single for long because no human is perfect. - don't look for beauty, good looks or material benefits in a partner but a good heart , industrious and visionary person with religious background basic or advanced. - don't be arrogant or racist. Modesty costs nothing. - be positive and pray for the best. When you finally find a serious person with true feelings for you do everything in a halaal manner and don't be tempted to do evil, be accommodative, respect one another regardless of the flaws that might be evident, don't demand too much but learn to compromise, learn to do things together with your loved one, encourage one another to perform ibaadat, do good deeds, don't always be offensive, pray for your partner, be understanding, be patient and put your reliance in Allah before anything. I pray that you all find true love and happiness here. All the best in your endeavors!!! Wa Billahi Tawfiq!
Life is a gift from God, should not have beliefe in worldly things, you are perfect the way you are, coz you are Allah's best creation. fear Allah, pray we be together in matrimonial union, InshaAllah!
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