For me family isn't about just me and husband but about build a litle country, we need to have a good comunication, and talk more openly, I'm a litle introvert for someone that I don't felt comfortable even with family . . There are many sunnah prayer that I always did, but the one that I take absance for more than one week is reading Qur'an. . . I'm understand husband should be leading our household but He can't do whatever He pleases, I don't usualy do home chores actually I do know how to do it, but just not my habits because in my house my parent have nanny housekeeper and I'm life with it for 17 years, . . . I learn to do Home chores when I'm in university because I was life alone, for cook I can cook, I believe this not the terms to selecting a wife, but I believe for become a wife minimal she should know how to maintain their home even not perfect. I maintain my anger and conflict with silent, usually when I get angry I'll silent, and won't to talk, when there are conflict since I'm a Muslim I learn where I need to getting angry, and when I need to keep calm and patient according to shariah law, I'm still trying it, hard but I always try . . . I manage my money so far is very well, actually I'm very loyal to food and picky with food actually and I like the healthy one since I was study about food engineering, I don't really like to shopping clothes or bags or shoes, I'm even didn't really like going to traditional market just not my habits, I've habits to share my income 2,5% with people in Need, and I always do it everymonth after my parents sent me my monthly money, I'm a bookworm. . . . My relationship with my family, I'm an orphan since 2012, my mother recently passed away, so my mother younger sister took me, and she gave me anything I want, I'm the only child in my family. I've been learning Islam its been 4 years so far, I will still learning it, I've my teacher, but it doesn't matter if my husband want me to move to his country as long as I can still learn Islam. . My hope in the future, actually I don't care too much about the job that my husband will have, but as an human being of course I like husband with more money enough to fed himself, and myself, the terms is only one Halal no contained with riba/usury and didn't disobey Allah rules. I can start family with simplicity as long my husband work hard, because we need a way so Allah can giving His blessing to us. . . . For my usually clothers that I wear, outside house I wear full hijab abaya with khimar with socks, when I'm in home I just wear simple clothes.
I need someone with clear vision and mission for marriage, I've clear vision and mission, and how to educate our children, I want to build family to achieve Allah mercy not for only for this dunya but also hereafter life. . . . Person who fear Allah, why? if He fear Allah he wouldn't do anything harm to me when He didnt loving me, but if He love me, of course I will be in pleasure. If you're really serious and interest with me, when you are not from my country, we can know each other by email, but I will limit the time its for one week, if you think you are suitable you can talk with my mahram, after that, you can come to my country, and I will do same, if I'm interest in within one week, you should introduce me with your parents/mahram, if not just end it as soon as possible. I'm searching for the serious one. Jazakallah khairan katsir.
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