I'm fat and 51 years old. An Irish revert of 20+ years. I need someone who will take care of me as a wife for the sake of Allah. I have no parents or children. My siblings are not muslim. I have had 2 marriages, one for 12 years, the other for 3. I am on very good terms with my first ex-husband, who will tell you about me. I have life long mental health problems which necessitate my taking medication, and mean that I can't have a full-time career. I like straightforward direct people who speak their truth clearly. I can't stand lies, sugar-coating or unnecessary tact which masks insincerity. I hate shouting and all forms of violence. I like peace and quiet. I would like to marry into a big family to a man who will give me all my rights and never elevate a co-wife or other female relative above me, except his mother. I would like to contribute to the Ummah by teaching. I am happy to try to keep house but am not very good at seeing what is required, having been raised with servants. I feel I can contribute most by teaching beneficial knowledge to all ages and in many subject areas. I am kind, considerate and loving. I love children and simple people who know and fear Allah.I am highly intelligent, creative and well educated. I want to help educate the members of the ummah and improve their ability to make a halal living, through education, formal and informal.
Must follow Sunnah not Culture if the 2 collide. Must not support ISIS, the Muslim Brotherhood or any other questionable type group. Must be intelligent, sincere, honest and on good terms with previous or current wives or mothers of his children. Must be patient, kind, understanding, a good listener, slow to anger and slow to make judgements. He must be non-violent and non-aggressive unless in defence of his family, property and the Ummah.
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